vive la difference

Why is it that those who yearn to differ from the norm end by being the most conformist? You will not see a more same-y looking crowd than a herd of teenagers, each simultaneously pining to be special and to blend in with the in-crowd. Pierced belly buttons and tattoos abound, all symbols of a desperate desire to "be different". The need to rebel is expressed as the most monotonous conformity. At the same time, the kid who really *is* different is the one who practices piano five hours a day and becomes a concert musicians or the one who excells in math or any other specific field of endeavour; the point being - it's not the rebeliousness that creates the unique individual but rather hard work which actually follows accepted norms.

Later in life, the herd instinct is expressed through fashion - be it platform shoes or skinny ties, mutton chop sideburns or bell bottom pants. Many people desire to be "in", then express the opinion that they are *special*, therefore "out".

Forget about the politically correct, nauseating mantra about everyone being special. The only thing that will make you special is talent and hard work. I don't think Einstein worried too much about the brand of his shoes.